By Dr. Mindy
When most people think of Kegel balls, they immediately associate them with enhancing sexual pleasure or strengthening an orgasm. While both are undoubtedly true, these small but mighty wellness tools (commonly known as kegel toners, Ben Wa Balls, or vaginal balls) offer far more benefits than you might expect.
As someone who has spent over a decade helping individuals and couples improve their intimate lives, I've seen firsthand how incorporating Kegel balls into a regular routine can transform not just sexual satisfaction but also overall physical health and well-being.
Let's explore five surprising benefits of incorporating kegel toners into your routine.
1. Enhanced Core Stability and Posture
Something that might surprise you is that your pelvic floor muscles are actually part of your core muscle group. When you use kegel toners regularly, you're not just working those deep internal muscles - you're strengthening your entire core foundation.
This improved core stability naturally leads to better posture throughout the day. Overall, many of my clients report feeling more mentally empowered, confident, and taller after just a few weeks of consistently using kegel toners. It's a whole-body win!
2. Improve Sexual Pleasure
Let's be real, this is how kegel balls made their way into the limelight! Now let's break it down.
Kegel balls enhance sexual pleasure by strengthening the pelvic floor muscles, which are directly involved in sexual response and orgasmic intensity. Regular use increases muscle tone and control in the vaginal walls, leading to heightened sensitivity and stronger, more controlled contractions during climax. The improved blood flow to the pelvic region that results from this strengthening also enhances natural lubrication and arousal response.
Additionally, the increased body awareness and mindfulness that develop through regular practice help individuals better recognize and communicate their desires, leading to more satisfying intimate experiences.
Many users report that the confidence gained from feeling more connected to their body translates into greater comfort and enjoyment during intimate moments. This creates a positive cycle where physical strength and emotional confidence work together to enhance overall sexual satisfaction. Pleasure win!
Silicone Kegel Ball Duo - 56g Weighted Set with Flexible Cord
3. Improves Bladder Control… Especially after Childbirth
While Kegel balls are commonly recommended for postpartum recovery, their benefits for bladder control extend to more than just postpartum mamas. Kegel toners can benefit vulva owners in many life stages.
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Regular kegel ball use can be transformative if you're dealing with stress incontinence from high-impact exercise, age-related changes, or simply want to maintain optimal bladder function.
Athletes, in particular, often experience stress incontinence during intense training. Incorporating Kegel balls into their routine can help maintain control during high-impact activities, allowing them to focus on performance rather than worry about leakage.
4. Better Sleep Quality
This might be the most unexpected benefit on the list. Many users report improved sleep quality after incorporating kegel balls into their routine. The connection lies in the relationship between pelvic floor tension and overall body relaxation.
When your pelvic floor muscles are properly toned and balanced, they can reduce overall muscular tension throughout your body. Additionally, the mindfulness aspect of using Kegel balls can help activate your parasympathetic nervous system—your body's "rest and digest" mode—making it easier to wind down at the end of the day.
5. Increased Confidence in All Areas of Your Life
Perhaps the most profound benefit is the boost in overall confidence that comes from taking control of your intimate health. When you feel strong and connected to your body, that confidence radiates into every aspect of your life.
I've witnessed clients experience improvements in their self-esteem, body image, and sex lives - all stemming from the empowerment that comes with prioritizing their intimate wellness.
There's something powerful about investing in this often-overlooked aspect of health, which can have a positive ripple effect throughout one's life.
The Holistic Approach to Intimate Wellness
These surprising benefits highlight why I advocate for a holistic approach to intimate wellness. When we invest in one aspect of our health, the benefits often extend far beyond what we initially expected.
Kegel balls represent more than just a wellness tool - they're an investment in your overall quality of life. From improved posture to better sleep, increased mindfulness to enhanced confidence, the benefits of regular use can truly transform how you feel in your body.
How to use Kegel Balls:
As a Doctor of Human Sexuality, I recommend using the Kegel Trainers collection. You can trust in The Rabbit Company's high quality hypoallergenic silicone. Plus, this line offers a plethora of sizes and shapes to fit what your body is ready for!
The key is starting with a lightweight. Check out the Single Silicone Kegel Ball, ideal for beginners, or try the Mix & Match Kegel Set for varied weights.
If you're new to Kegel balls, start slowly and listen to your body. Follow these steps to get started:
- Wash your hands and the squeeze item with antibacterial soap.
- Rub a small to moderate amount of water-based lube on the balls for easy insertion. (Don't go overboard on the lube, or you may have difficulties keeping the weight inserted.)
- Lie on your back in a comfortable position.
- Slowly and steadily insert the squeeze item into your vagina.
- Push the item as far into your vagina as you are comfortable.
- Once the balls feel secure in the vaginal canal your work has begun!
- Continue lying down or standing up and going about your day. The weights will automatically engage your pelvic floor muscles, or you can take your kegel work to the next level and engage in a series of kegels.
Begin with 5-10 minutes a few times per week, gradually increasing duration as your muscles strengthen. Quality matters more than quantity - focus on proper technique and consistent use rather than lengthy sessions.
Remember, everyone's body is different, and what works for one person may need adjustment for another. If you have any concerns or medical conditions, consult with a healthcare provider before beginning any new wellness routine.
